Human beings are creatures of their nature living in harmony with others. The process of his relation with other people starts with birth. While discharging these relations, he spends his whole life sometimes in the shadow of happiness and sometimes in sorrow. Human beings sometimes live their lives by awakening or experiencing the feelings of motherhood or with the help of loving relationships.
Till the whole life of a person, these relationships sometimes work as a jewelry and sometimes they bow down to the person as a burden. In such relationships, friendship is also an important relationship, which starts from childhood and is made and maintained till the last breath.
Friendship is important in comparison to other family and blood relations because it is beyond greed and moves ahead with the help of a mine of joy and a peeler of honesty and truth. But a true friend is recognized only when the opposite time comes. Childhood friendships are more pure, free from greed and full of joy. Childhood friendships are pleasing, but in adolescence it takes on a serious, firm and calm form.
Often, by putting the trust of an ideal friend on someone, people are not able to live up to the criterion of friendship. Those friendships which are made under the control of wealth, wealth, appearance, talent etc., they definitely appear before us as a mistake one day. The quality of friendship becomes very less in youth, those who are made friends, this is done with great care, because the foundation of friendship lying at this age remains lifelong.
When wealth, respect comes and the paths of development are open in life, then in these days of happiness even those who do not know them show a sense of belongingness. But the person who supports us even after his absence, gives us courage, gives us confidence in difficult times, he is a true friend.
A friend is a guide in difficult times, a guide in difficult times, affectionate in moments of trouble, playing the role of elder in times of decision, is a guide in life like a guru. He always considers his friend’s gain and loss as his profit and loss. A true friend is the one who gives birth to joy and happiness in our life.
Meaning of Friendship: Many people take this illusion in relation to friendship that most of the people living together are our friends. Whereas a true friend not only stays together, does the same work. Apart from this, he always supports us by being our well wisher and partner in our progress and destruction.
Just wishing for happy moments and living in it is not friendship. A true friend is the one who helps his friend in every way by becoming a support even in moments of adversity. Although there is no such specific rule as to who will be a friend, so one should always make good and good friendship relations with a good person after thinking carefully.
Usually we form more friendly relations with people of our age. For example, young children will keep friendship only with a classmate studying in their class. An adult person prefers to be friends with an adult and an older person with an older person of his age. The effect of gender is also seen in friendship. Homosexual means that men make friendship with men and women with women. Although it is not universal, there are many transgender friends as well.
In this way it can be said that a true friend is the one. Who is not only a companion of our happiness and sorrow, but he should always have a sense of selfless help in the form of a Guru and affectionate. Even though we differ in color, form and habits.Loyalty is the basis of this relationship, as long as there is no crookedness in mutual loyalty, friendship will only grow.
Importance of Friendship: Friendship is very important in our life. The feeling of mutual selfishness exists in some form or the other in blood relations or caste relations. Where each other is considered as one’s own. Considering his happiness and sorrows as his own, he gets to give a sense of unity emotionally. That is the meaning of true friendship.
Just like a little boy has a lot of attachment to his toys. Exactly the same love happens to a friend. Considering that inanimate object as his companion, that little boy becomes emotionally acquainted with him, sometimes talks to him, then even kills him if he does not like it. After developing the understanding of vitality, instead of blooming, it becomes his friend.
If you want to define friendship in one word, then it can be termed as affinity. These expressions can be any cosmic living, non-living or even transcendental. Some people have affinity for their childhood friends, while some with their own things like car etc., with whom sometimes they can be seen talking like this. Anyone from their scooter or bicycle. So people of more religious nature, considering God as their friend and treating him as their companion, behave in solitude as if he is listening to them.
Epilogue: Yari or friendship is considered the most precious. If friendship is made with the right person, then she takes the form of a decorated forest, if she makes someone her friend without testing, then she can prove to be fatal for life like poison pudding. Because with a friend nothing is hidden. In such a situation, many times one has to face problems like life insecurity and blackmail by telling deep secrets and secrets to someone.
compared to other relationships Friendship is also important because in it there is very little place for etiquette, measuring and saying etc. Whatever is said from the heart is friendship. Everyone wants friendship to last a lifetime. There should never come a moment when two true friends get separated. Good qualities are not always found in the treasure of friendship. How is the character of your friend, if you do not have a test about it, then even if the feelings of the heart are attached to your friendship, they can also lead you on the wrong path.
By: Simrat Kaur
