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                                         How to be Happy?






                                                  Pitchapa Jitsajjapong
                                                                 or  ‘I  wish  I  could  just  disappear
                                                                 forever.’ Hearing all of this made me
                                                                 feel  sick  and  wonder  why  they  can’t
                                                                 just smile and enjoy the moment they
                                                                 live. I’m convinced that happiness can
                                                                 be  made  if  we  change  our
                                                                 perspective—of      how     we     view
                                                                 ourselves.
                                                                  One  of  the  major  reasons  causing
                                                                 depression  comes  from  ‘beauty’  or
                                                                 ‘how  others  look  at  us’.  Numerous
                                                                 teenagers  are  way  too  addicted  to
                                                                 perfection    as    if   they    expect
                                                                 themselves to look perfectly like an
                                                                 angel, without realizing that they live
                                                                 in ‘reality’, where there is none such a
                                                                 thing  called  perfection.  Looking  into
                                                                 the  mirror,  they  start  to  hate
                                                                 themselves  more  and  more,  just
                    Over a decade, there were more than          because  of  their  appearance  which
                    tens  of  thousands  of  teenagers           they  thought  looks  ‘ugly’.  However,
                    suffering from depression. No matter         one thing that they forget is all people
                    how  many  times  they  tried  to  seek      look  good  in  a  different  way,
                    happiness, they always ended up with         depending  on  how  they  think  of
                    failure,  living  with  fear  and  anxiety.   themselves.  It  does  not  matter  what
                    All of this would not have happened          color  of  skins  or  what  body  shapes
                    if  they  have  what  is  called  ‘Being     they  have,  as  long  as  they  have
                    proud of themselves.’The sad fact is,        confidence, then everybody can shine
                                                                 in  their  own  ways.  No  matter  what
                    depressed  teenagers  do  not  value         others say to you or what you think of
                    themselves as much as they should. I         yourself, just keep in mind that I am
                    heard  some  of  them  keep  saying          the one who sees your beauty.
                    something  like  ‘I  don’t  want  to  be      Apart  from  beauty,  studying  also
                    myself anymore’, ‘Being myself sucks’,       makes teenagers feel anxious as all of






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