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                          How to Build a Good Character?


                                              By Koushik Roy Choudhari

                                                                 Our  talking,  our  thinking,  our  mode
                    Our country, as well as the whole            of working all are the totality of  our
                                                                 inner  nature.  Character,  as  observed
                    world,  is  reeling  under  the  flux  of    by  Swami  Vivekananda  is  "an
                    injustice,   immorality,      jealously,     agglomeration  of  our  propensities,  it
                    hypocrisy,  sycophancy,  economic  up
                                                                 is the bundle of habits." Naturally, we
                    and  down,  etc.  We  are  much              think or speak or act according to our
                    concerned  to  eradicate  such  all  sorts
                                                                 propensities  and  habits.  Our  inner
                    of  problems  but  our  all  endeavours      propensities  motivate  us  to  think  or
                    result  in  vain.  Every  problem  circles   speak  or  act  in  a  certain  way  which
                    around  single  thing  only  that  is  the   already has become ours.
                    crisis  of  character.  If  we  can  tackle
                    this  crisis  boldly  and  squarely,  all
                                                                 Here is an example of three passers-
                    other  crisis  will  gradually  be  solved   by having different properties. On the
                    without  much  difficulty.  While  we're     side  of  a  road,  water  tap  is  open.
                    much  worried  about  all  other
                                                                 Someone  used  it  but  forgot  to  twist
                    problems  and  try  to  solve  them,  no     its  nob.  Person  A  notices  it  but
                    serious  thinking  or  no  efforts  are
                                                                 ignoring  the  wastage  of  drinking
                    being made to confront the problem           water,  he  moves  away.  Person  B
                    of  lack  of  character.  It  is  the  most   notices it and begins to think whether
                    urgent  problem  today  and  all  the        he should stop it or not, while person
                    serious  and  thinking  citizens  should     C  without  the  least  thinking  goes  to
                    devote  sufficient  time  to  find  out  a
                                                                 the  water  tap  and  twists  the  nob  to
                    way  how  to  tackle  it.  Unfortunately,    stop  immediately  the  wastage  of
                    the character appears to be something        water. What we do without thinking is
                    vague    and    obscure    to    many.       our  propensity.  The  action  has
                    According to general opinion, it is an       become a propensity for the person C
                    inherent  quality  of  a  man.  As  a
                                                                 but person B is still trying to make it
                    building's  strength  depends  on  the
                                                                 as  a  propensity.  We  can  change  our
                    quality of every brick, the character of     fashion of thinking, speaking or doing
                    every citizen affirms the future of the
                                                                 and  thus  we  can  change  our
                    society they are living in.
                                                                 propensities  and  habits  or  our

                                                                 characters.
                    What is a character?

                    Truly  a  character  cannot  be  located
                    directly  but  it  can  be  perceived  by    Habit  is  not  formed  in  a  day.  It  is
                    one's  conducts,  speeches  or  deeds.       formed through repeated actions. For





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