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                              How to Deal with Your Past?

                                                   By Aditi Srivastava






                                                                 Past  is  a  part  of  our  life,  we  cannot
                                                                 hide or run away from. But is it worth
                                                                 all  the  time  and  energy?  Is  it
                                                                 something  which  needs  to  be
                                                                 addressed or we can just let it be? Is it
                                                                 something so small not worth of our
                                                                 attention or is there something hidden
                                                                 that  cannot  be  understood  by  us  as
                                                                 our own thoughts and judgements are
                                                                 clouded?

                                                                 So, what should we do at the end of
                                                                 it?  Should  we  not  try  and  move  on
                                                                 from  our  past  instances  or  events?
                                                                 Should we just let it define us and let
                                                                 it reflect or shape our identity? Or we

                                                                 should  empower  ourselves  so  as  to
                                                                 gain  inner  peace,  have  control  over

                                                                 our  thoughts  and  be  able  to
                    “No  matter  how  hard  the  past,           understand the fact that sometimes all
                                                                 we can do is accept the things we are
                    you  can  always  begin  again”  –
                                                                 not  able  to  change  and  move  on  in
                    BUDDHA.
                                                                 our lives.
                    Past is a thing of past – a time gone
                                                                 But is it as simple as it is said to be?
                    by,  a  page  written  off  with  a
                                                                 Yes and No…
                    permanent ink that cannot be erased,
                    changed,  or  altered.  But  somehow         It  all  starts  with  acknowledging  the
                    that becomes the basis of our present        fact  that  holding  onto  our  past  will
                    life  or  existence.  We  as  humans         not take us anywhere in our lives. We
                    always cling onto our past, pondering        will be stuck at one place and it would
                    over  each  detail  with  a  hope  to        only affect our present state of being.
                    change its effect without realising that     To be able to free ourselves from the
                    it  has  now  started  controlling  our      shackles of past events will help us to
                    thoughts,     actions    and      most       come out as a better person than who
                    importantly our life.                        we were and also who has the ability




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