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HOW TO DEAL WITH YOUR
NEGATIVE SELF?
By Vidushi sahi
“A man’ own self is his friend. His own
self is his foe.” -Bhagwat Geeta
that’s what parents demand from
their children. However we are not
taught to be the best version of
ourselves. And as a result, we tie off
our laces to be a participant of this
race. We people are told to secure our
future, however we are not taught to
build our character and work for our
present. Aren’t we leading our lives in
scope for future? A simple
All and sundry in this world are
question…When we have fixed our
somewhat running gallop in the race whole life for future, how can we be
course of life for victory and success.
happy in our present?
However, what is the definition of
victory and success for us? A person As a result of all the aforementioned
efforts that all of our lives are made
who acquires a house, a car and is
well settled. From cradle to grave, we of, arises dissatisfaction, enviousness,
are taught to work hard as to achieve over thinking, selfishness and a lot
more things.
all the aforementioned stuff. Plethora
of such things has been taught to a In a nutshell, a comfortable doesn’t
person since his childhood. If we ask mean a happy life”.
those people who have reached this Today’s life of hustle and bustle has
“so called success” , “Are they happy lead us into a world of throng where
after acquiring it?”. Their answer is we have made host of friends
NO. Even they say that the days of however we have reached a place
struggle and childhood are the days of where we are far away from our own
happiness for them. family members. Whole life gets spent
We people are taught that the key to without getting aware of our own self.
success is to study. However we are The noise of the world is that loud
not taught how to study. We are that we don’t get to hear and
taught that we have to reach success, experience our own self what we
however we are not taught to enjoy actually want…..
and celebrate your struggle. We are
told to be the best amongst everyone,
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