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HOW TO DEAL WITH FAILURE?
By Vidhi
We should embrace failures in life and
should try to get positive out of it.
We should try to be optimistic, even
in our toughest time because there is a
silver lining to every dark cloud.
We can sometimes even get depressed
when we are looking at our failures
Life is like a coin, the coin has two but being depressed won't help us.
faces; sometimes it is heads Instead, we can look at what we have
sometimes it is tails. Similarly, our life done wrong because of which we fail.
has ups and downs, success, and As Samuel Beckett said -
failure. “Ever tried. No matter. Try again. Fail
again. Fail better.”
Everybody has to deal with failure
sometime in their life. But we have to But we should never lose hope.
learn how to put it behind us and We should never give up on ourselves
concentrate on the future and what and on life, who knows when we
opportunities life has in store for us. might get successful.
We should know how to focus on the
goal we have chosen and should You might get sad and depressed and
forget about the problems we faced in feel bad about yourself when you fail
the process of achieving that goal. but, remember being depressed won't
But we should also remember to not help.
be hard on ourselves if we didn't My biggest advice to people who
achieve what we wanted to struggle with depression caused by
If we face this situation in life we failure is to ‘talk’.
should remember to put all the failure Talk to someone you can trust,
in life at the back of our mind, we are someone who can help you in this
only going to waste time that we have, time, someone who can make a
instead, we should think about change, a difference in your life so
something thatwe can do to cheer up that you can forget about the failure
ourselves or think about something and look on to the future.
we can alter that is going to be helpful Remember that success comes to
to us for achieving the target we have those who work hard; it doesn't come
in our mind. to those who sit back and believe they
have failed in life.
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