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                     HOW TO DEAL WITH FAILURE?

                                                         By Vidhi





                                                                 We should embrace failures in life and
                                                                 should try to get positive out of it.
                                                                 We should try to be optimistic, even
                                                                 in our toughest time because there is a
                                                                 silver lining to every dark cloud.
                                                                 We can sometimes even get depressed
                                                                 when  we  are  looking  at  our  failures
                    Life is like a coin, the coin has two        but being depressed won't help us.
                    faces;   sometimes     it   is   heads       Instead, we can look at what we have
                    sometimes it is tails. Similarly, our life   done wrong because of which we fail.
                    has  ups  and  downs,  success,  and         As Samuel Beckett said -
                    failure.                                     “Ever  tried.  No  matter.  Try  again.  Fail
                                                                 again. Fail better.”
                    Everybody  has  to  deal  with  failure
                    sometime in their life. But we have to       But we should never lose hope.
                    learn  how  to  put  it  behind  us  and     We should never give up on ourselves
                    concentrate  on  the  future  and  what      and  on  life,  who  knows  when  we
                    opportunities life has in store for us.      might get successful.
                    We should know how to focus on the
                    goal  we  have  chosen  and  should          You might get sad and depressed and
                    forget about the problems we faced in        feel bad about yourself when you fail
                    the process of achieving that goal.          but, remember being depressed won't
                    But we should also remember to not           help.
                    be  hard  on  ourselves  if  we  didn't      My  biggest  advice  to  people  who
                    achieve what we wanted to                    struggle  with  depression  caused  by
                    If  we  face  this  situation  in  life  we   failure is to ‘talk’.
                    should remember to put all the failure       Talk  to  someone  you  can  trust,
                    in life at the back of our mind, we are      someone  who  can  help  you  in  this
                    only going to waste time that we have,       time,  someone  who  can  make  a
                    instead,  we  should  think  about           change,  a  difference  in  your  life  so
                    something thatwe can do to cheer up          that  you  can  forget  about  the  failure
                    ourselves  or  think  about  something       and look on to the future.
                    we can alter that is going to be helpful     Remember  that  success  comes  to
                    to us for achieving the target we have       those who work hard; it doesn't come
                    in our mind.                                 to those who sit back and believe they
                                                                 have failed in life.





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