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                                How to Deal with Difficulties

                                         By Muntaha Imtiyaz Ahmed Ansari

                             “Attitude is what matters the       Similarly, if there are eases then there
                               most, if it’s not good, the       are difficulties too… So it’s
                                  diamond is lost”
                                                                 better to accept the difficult times and
                                                                 deal with it.


                                                                 “How  to  deal  with  Difficulties”
                                                                 instead  Of  “How  to  get  rid  of
                                                                 difficulties”

                                                                 You may feel that what rubbish I am
                                                                 talking about but trust me I may seem
                                                                 rubbish to you right till now but, after
                                                                 reading  the  whole,  I  am  damn  sure
                                                                 that you are going to think that I am

                                                                 white right.

                           Who  doesn’t  have difficulties  or
                    hardships in  his/her  life?  So,  we  all   The thing we need to do is to try to
                    have  difficulties.  Sometimes,  it’s  a     deal  with  difficulties  with  a  lot  of
                    very difficult time for us. We all just      patience  and  calmness.  I  think  that
                    want  to  come out of  a difficult  time     almighty has sent difficulties to us to
                    because it’s a difficult time. But there     test how much patience we have and
                    are  some  methods  so  that  you  can       to  increase  our  patience  as  it  slowly
                    come  out  from  the  difficult  time's      stretches our patience and increases it.
                    difficulties.                                Secondly, we need a lot of optimistic
                    Whenever we have a difficult time, we        attitudes.  If  we  are  going  to  show  a
                    just try to get rid of it and that’s the     negative  attitude  then  the  difficulties
                    biggest mistake of ours. We need not         are  going  to  show  us  an  even  more
                    try  to  get  rid  of  the  difficult  times.   negative  attitude.  And  the  same
                    You  may  think  that  why  am  I            happens,  if  you’re  going  to  show  an
                    suggesting you do not try to get rid of      optimistic attitude to difficulties, then
                    difficult times  is as  it’s a part of our   difficulties  are  going  to  show  us  an
                    lives and we can’t change it. We can         even more positive attitude.
                    just deal with it. For example: if there     So,  choosing  right  attitude  is  what
                    is  the  day,  there’s  a  night  too...,  if   matters  the  most.  If  it’s  right  at  the

                    good is there, there’s evil too.             right time you’re going to win and if

                                                                 it’s wrong, then you are going to lose.





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