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                   I CAN’T, HOW CAN I? WILL I? CAN I?



                                                   By Rahila Khan




































                                                                particular morning. It‟s been a bone
                                                                of  contention  for  many  years,  and
               Is  this  cynical,  when  you  read?             the issue has spawned a plethora of
                                                                self-help  guides  on  how  to  be
               Every  word  we  use  creates  an
               exuberant vibe around us. Most of                „positive'.  Sometimes,  on  social
               the people fail to keep their mind in            media,  well-meaning  people  give
               a  zero-level  control.  As  you  start          this     recommendation,          “Stay

               thinking  the    first  question  which          faraway  from  negative  people”.  It
               knocks your mind is, "am I capable               always      troubles    me.     I    can
               of  doing  it?"Once  you  ignore  the            understand avoiding “toxic" people
               topic  of  the  commitment  you                  such as bullies, sociopaths, conflict
               always  find  yourself  with  a                  instigators  and  destroyers  of  the
               negative  word  "  No".  None  of  us            good.
               wants  to  take  up  a  new  job.  We            Negativity may be a tendency to be
               create an internal doubt.                        downbeat         disagreeable       and
                                                                skeptical. It's a pessimistic attitude
               The glass can be half-full, or it can
               be  half-empty,  depending  on  your             that always expects the worst. This
               outlook on life or on which side of              description of negative sounds very
               the  bed  you  get  out  of  any                 much  like  the  sadness,  irritability,




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