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               When you see your class topper as                    affect you.
               an  average  student  that  he/she  is           ●  Do meditation.

               being  appreciated  by  teachers  ,              ●  Involve yourself in the things you
               everyone         knows          him/her.             like most , like listening to music,
                                                                    starting writing etc.
               Sometimes  you  feel  that  now  I               ●  Remind  yourself  to  remain

               would do better than the topper and                  positive.
               prove myself that I too can do that.
               And this feeling is positive as you               So  both  self-confidence  and
               are  encouraging  yourself  for  your             jealousy is a major part of students

               progress.  And  sometimes  you                    life and it can‟t be separated from
               achieve  what  you  think  and                    their day to day life but if you have
               sometimes  you  succeed  in  your                 courage  and  determination  to  do

               dreams and that too because of the                better than you can be a successful
               feeling of jealousy.                              in  later  life,  as  because  in  school
                                                                 itself  we  learn  to  understand  and
               Some  with  the  competition,  when               control  our  emotions  and  convert
               you see someone is better than you                them into our strength.
               and  you  feel  jealous  of  that  guy,
               sometimes        you     start     doing          The  things  which  I  wrote  above

               everything  that  would  make  you                are  according  to  my  views  and
               better and that is positive.                      opinions  and  these  are  based  on
                                                                 my  real  life  experience.  And  real
               So jealousy could be positive too, if             life  experiences  are  never  wrong,

               you direct yourself in a correct way              yes it may be different but if you
               and become expressive and not let                 feel  the  words,  and  connect
               your  negative  feelings  overhead                yourself with these words then you

               your positive one.                                too  will  understand  the  things
                                                                 which I have written.
               So  if  you  feel  that  your  jealousy  is

               making  you  negative,  so  just  do
               these things to improve that –
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               ●  Let  it  go  for  the  things  which














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