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               frustrating, and it‟s easy to assume             understands  you  and    make    you

               the worst                                        feel    special.    No    one    has    ever
                                                                made       themselves       great     by
               If  someone  ignores  you,  just                 degrading  others.  Just  forget  and

               because    they    don‟t    like    your         move on!
               way  of  style  or  because  of the

               decisions you make  in  life,  then              Make  them  feel  that  you  don‟t
               it‟s  undoubtedly  not  your  fault.             simply  care  and  have  moved  on
               It    is    your    life    to    make  your     with    this    thing.    Don‟t  let  them

               decisions. Don‟t blame yourself for              know  that  you  are  hurt.  Always
               their    behavior.    No    one    is            keep  smiling,  not  only  in front

               perfect.  Real friends are those who             of  them  but in reality too.  Never
               accept your flaws and direct you to              compromise    with    your    self-
               a good way.                                      respect.  Knowing  that  you  were

                                                                hurted may give them pleasure. Let
                                                                us not make way for it.


                                                                Let    me    illustrate    an    example.
                                                                This   is    actually    the   thing   that

                                                                happened  in  my  own  life. I had
                                                                lots    and    lots    of    friends    at

                                                                school.  And  it‟s  been  just  a  year
                                                                that    I    completed    my  schooling.

                                                                At  school,  we  were  all  having  a

               If the person who ignores you is not             whale  of  a  time.  My  school  days
               the  one  you  care about,  then  it             were overwhelmed  with  joy,  with

               is  better  not  to  worry about their           all  my  favourite  persons  around.
               such  activities.  Just    ignore    it.         As    time    passed,    my    days  at

               Ignore  the  haters.  Stop  lingering            school  got  over.    And    I    had    to
               around    such  people  because  they            take  my  career  to  the  next  level.
               aren't  doing  any  good  for  you    in         As  we  were  directed  to different

               any  way.    Find    new    friends,             streams,  our  friendship  did  not
               Interact with new people.                        work out well.  In fact,  we  were

                                                                not  on  good  terms. I had to take
               It  stinks  to  be  ignored.  But  don‟t         my own decisions on life. So, I did
               stress over things you can‟t change.             not opt for their opinions.

               You  will    find    someone  who



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