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                   HOW TO GET RID OF DECISIONS



                                          YOU REGRET?


                                                   By Anjali Shah


                                                                among  the  various  alternatives

               All  of  us  experience  this  very              available,  and  there  arises  the
                                                                trouble, as each coin has two sides,
               often  that  after  making  a  certain           every  decision  has  pros  and  cons.
               decision  in  our  life,  we  end  up            Even  though  people  think  a  lot

               regretting  that  decision,  which               before  making  any  decision,  still
               affects  our  present  efficiency  also.         many of them end up regretting the
               Such  situations  are  referred  to  as          decisions  they  made.  Regret  arises

               decision  fatigue,  a  type  of  mental          when  people  think  they  could  have
               stress we suffer because of too many             chosen  better,  this  regret  is  so
               choices that we make.
                                                                harmful  that  it  destroys  all  present

                                                                efficiency of the person.

                                                                People  keep  on  cursing  their  bad
                                                                choices,  instead  of  getting  over  it,

                                                                they  waste  a  huge  amount  of  time
                                                                regretting,  the  time  lost  never
                                                                returns.  In  this  process,  they  hurt

                                                                themselves  and  often  their  dearer
                                                                and nearer ones too.

                                                                As  said  by  C.S.  Lewis,  "You  can't
               "Decisions",  we  hear  this  so
                                                                go  back  and  change  the  beginning,
               frequently, that we tend to ignore its           but you can start where you are and
               importance.  At  each  stage  of  life,          change the ending."

               every minute, we all make decisions,
               from  waking  up  in  the  morning  to           So,  regrets  only  destroy  your  inner
               going  to  bed,  we  take  hundreds  of          peace,  and  in  return  gives  nothing

               decisions  in  a  day.  Some  of  these          but  pain.  Instead  of  regretting  we
               decisions become a life changer for              should  start  over  from  what  we
               some  people.  There  are  situations            have, and take it to our goals. This is

               where  one  needs  to  choose  one               what one should do if they regret a




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