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               certain decision and are stuck there.            people,  it's  you  who  has  to  go
               Here,  I  am  to  write  about,  how  to         through it alone, not the people; it's

               make  decisions,  such  that  there              you  who  will  go  through  all  the
               remain no chances to regret.                     hardships and not the people, so just

                                                                make  sure  you  never  ignore  your
               First  of  all,  always  understand,             interests, happiness, and satisfaction.
               decisions are part and parcel of life,           If  you  are  satisfied  with  your
               and are the most important thing that            choices,  people  would  never  affect

               can  completely  change  your  lives.            you,  you  will  not  have  to  look  to
               One  decision  is  enough  to  make              others, and you will be content with
               one's  life  or  to  ruin  it.  So  never        what  you  have  achieved,  as  it  was

               ignore  the  importance  of  decisions.          because  of  your  own  decision.
               Decisions should never be taken in a             Always make decisions on outcomes
               hurry, take your time to think, as it's          you  want,  not  based  on  your

               always better to think before acting.            emotions.
               Sit  down  and  analyze,  what  impact
               will this decision  have  in  your  life,        Decisions require time and you need
               what  will  be  your  life  after  taking        to give that, keeping some time for

               this decision, will that life make you           thinking  about  choices  that  will
               happy  and  give  you  inner  peace?             change  your  life  is  necessary,  not
               These are some questions that are to             every  decision  could  be  taken

               be  answered  by  yourself  before               quickly.
               arriving at any decision.


               Decisions  should  always  be  yours,
               do  never  take  any  decision  for
               others,  you  are  not  responsible  for
               other's  happiness,  but  you  are  for

               yours. Commonly, many of us make
               decisions, keeping in mind "People".

               What  will  they  say,  what  will  they
               act,  what  will  be  there  opinion…??
               This affects our happiness, we keep              Don't  make  decisions  based  on
               our happiness, our satisfaction at the           where  you  are…make  decisions

               sub-ordinate level, and we give it a             based  on  where  you  want  to  be.
               secondary  preference.  But  one                 Keeping in mind your future is most
               should  keep  in  mind,  that  decision          important,  each  decision  should  be

               you take will affect you and not the



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