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                    Anthony  and  Brutus  after  Caesar’s        difference  between  a  successful
                    death.  In  these  scenes,  immortalized     communicator and the rest.
                    by  the  great  Shakespeare,  the  crowd

                    mood  is  alternately  swayed  by  the       As  the  Gurus  keep  telling,  good
                    thundering, powerful speeches of the         listening, eye contact, proper body
                    two rival orators.                           language         and       appropriate

                                                                 vocabulary  are  some  of  the  vital
                    Such is the power of communication.          requirements.
                    As said before, it is an inborn talent.
                    But  this  skill  can  also  be  carefully   While there can be no dispute on that,

                    nurtured with the guidance of modern         it  is  also  important  to  understand  as
                    communication experts.                       to what is the single most important
                                                                 underlying  trait  that  showcases  all

                    Coming  back  to  present  times,  it  is    these  other  qualities  of  the  gifted
                    the  truly  skilled  communicator  who       communicator. This trait is Emotional
                    manages  to  get  plum  jobs  in  almost     Intelligence.  This  inborn  asset,  in
                    any  sector  of  employment.  Other          formidable  combination  with  fluency

                    things  being  equal  (or  even  a  little   of  language,  brings  out  the  best  in
                    unequal) it is the person who presents       oral communication.
                    himself  or  herself  most  agreeably  in

                    interviews and group discussions that        The  emotionally  intelligent  person
                    walks off with the job in any campus.        adapts  his  style  to  the  personality
                    The  same  principle  holds  good  later     traits of  the superior,  customer, peer
                    in the career development. The ascent        or  any  other  stake  holder  who  is

                    is  generally  faster  and  smoother  for    important  to  him  or  her.  He  rather
                    the     intelligent    communicator.         customizes his communication to the
                    Unfortunately,     quite     a     few       individual,  in  order  to  oil  the  wheels

                    professionals    with   many     other       of  the  ongoing  transaction.  For
                    capabilities but who lack this skill fail    example, if the person in question is a
                    to  make  it  to  the  position  they        ‘no-nonsense, shoot first and then ask
                    deserve to attain.                           questions’     type,    the    typically

                                                                 intelligent  communicator  would  be
                    So what is intelligent communication?        brief,  polite  and  to  the  point  with
                    This  leads  us  to  the  inevitable         him. On the other hand, if the other

                    question  of  what  qualities  make  the     guy is a jovial, ‘beat around the bush’





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