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How to deal with your relationship when
it is going downhill?
By SANHITA CHAKRABORTY
• Attention: Be attentive
towards your partner. Not only
it will save you from lots of
fights but also you will notice
the small changes in your
partner. Like the way, his/her
eyes shy down when you kiss
them, or maybe the way they
smile when you declare your
love. Give them attention.
“If you want a relationship that looks and Every person in the whole
feels like the most amazing thing on earth, world needs attention from
you need to treat it like it is the most their partner. We are
amazing thing on earth” – Emily Ratay. programmed like that. And if
you think seeking attention is a
Fights in relationships are not new, women’s arena then you are
yet they are an essential part of any definitely mistaken.
relationship. Fights, • Care: Show them if you care. A
misunderstandings, arguments, etc small text, a 2 minutes call is all
will happen for sure when two people needed to just make a person
are together. It’s not possible to love happy. If you love your partner
someone and not dislike some of their just show it. Maybe you are
habits. In the initial days, everything busy but a call to your partner
seems smooth and both the partners will refresh both you and your
are in an illusion of love and the partner’s minds.
oxytocin- the love hormone, does its • Quality time: Suppose you are
job. You are both in head over heels, meeting them this weekend,
in love with each other, ignoring each and after meeting them all you
other’s faults. But then fast forward to care about is your phone and
a few months later, the reality starts social media then what is the
seeping in and bang!! you have issues point of meeting them?
in the relationship. So what should • Patience: Have a little patience
you keep in mind to stay happy in a when you are engrossed in an
relationship? Here are some points to argument. Make your views
follow: clear and try to understand
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