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                    day,  month,  or  a  year.  I  mean  come     you  think  this  way  then  you  are
                    on  people  think  for  yourself.  Is  this   wrong.  Learning  to  say  no  means
                    what  it  actually  should  be?  People       setting priorities for yourself and then
                    behave as though the  world is going          deciding what should be done.
                    to  end  tomorrow.  If  this  is  the  case   Moving onto a different aspect now.
                    then  I  am  afraid  to  say  that  people    You have 24 hours a day and 7 days a
                    themselves       are     having       a       week. OH lord, my almighty! What do
                    misconception  of  having  balanced           we  do  in  such  a  limited  time?
                    their work as well as life.                   Demand      laying    themselves     as
                    Let  us  forget  this  debating  concept.     whereby we are expected to exercise,
                    Throwing  light  on  certain  questions       sleep,  managing  the  various  social
                    that  generally  come  to  the  minds  of     events that come our way, and living
                    the  people  when  it  comes  to              up  to  the  expectations  of  the  work
                    balancing  anything  in  life  are            demand,  family  demands,  personal
                    probably:  Am  I  competitive  enough         pursuits so on, and so forth.
                    to  shine  out  in  the  era  of  boundless   Sometimes  a  situation  would  also
                    cut-throat  competition?  Where  do  I        arise  whereby  you  would  end  up
                    stand in life? Should I earn more? Is         feeling  that  all  trusts  have  dignity  at
                    my  present  income  sought  fully            work  policies,  you  might  also  feel
                    accepted by my family? Is my family           bullied  actually  if  too  much  pressure
                    happy with me? If people keep having          is exerted on you to undertake more
                    the thought of others then where are          extra work. Therefore in such a case,
                    you for yourself?                             a trick to keep yourself as well as your

                    We  have  3  personal  resources  and         life at home comfortable is setting up
                    they  are  time,  energy,  and  money.        a  strategy  that  could  help  you  to
                    Now! Question mark, question mark,            manage  your  work  and  family.  An
                    question  mark?  People  are  like  what      example  supported  hereby  could  be
                    do  we  do  now?  So  hereby  are  some       when a person knows that his family
                    solutions  attached  which  could  learn      needs  him  and  his  work  also  cannot
                    to manage your time, make use of the          be  ignored.  So?Now?  Sit  back  and
                    technology  at  your  service,  start         watch  what  happens  thinking  that
                    making flexible schedules for yourself,       OH  MY  GOD.  I  am  certainly  in  a
                    always  be  present,  consistent  and         fix?  Rather  a  dilemma?  Trust  me  it's
                    accountable, do not procrastinate, do         not so.
                    things  right  away,  don't  keep  things     Get  up.  Buckle  up,  pull  up  your
                    for  tomorrow.  This  is  because             socks, and tell yourself that it's time to
                    tomorrow never comes.                         prove  myself.  So,  get  along  move
                    A  very important  point that I would         ahead  and  help  yourself  rather  than
                    like to bring to the reader's notice is       sitting and waiting for an opportunity
                    that people should set boundaries for         or a solution to come and knock your
                    themselves.    Moreover,  learn  to  say      doors. If the example that I quoted is
                    No at some point in time. Saying no           taken  under  consideration  then  the
                    doesn't mean refusing to do work. If          rather option could be to work from





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